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My favourite picture of me and Christiaan on the beach in Puerto Vallarta last week.

Have you ever been away on vacation, and when you come back you have no sense of time?

My partner and I were away for our birthdays from the 12th to 19 November in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. Before going away, I scheduled two articles and my podcast to automatically publish…

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Recently, I read in the Guardian that “Top Republicans rub shoulders with extremists in secretive rightwing group, leak reveals.”

“A leaked document has revealed the membership list of the secretive Council for National Policy (CNP), showing how it provides opportunities for elite Republicans, wealthy entrepreneurs, media proprietors and pillars of…

Obviously, it depends on the news you are consuming. I’m having a very difficult time trying to practice my six principles of human heartedness: non-contention, humility, open-minded flexibility and yielding, compassion, impartiality, and oneness.

For my full, off-the-cuff monologue, watch the video:

This morning, I quickly checked Twitter to see that David Suzuki was trending on comments…

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Over the course of a bit more than a year, I’ve published many personal growth exercises. I gave the process the name, Personal Evolution Process (PEP).

Each process follows a structure to help you define the problem or challenge at hand. You then further refine the problem by turning your…

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Arguing In Favour that Words Can Be Violent Is a Slippery Slope.

At the outset, we need to use words to describe what other words mean. If a particular word is considered to be violent, what does that say about the other words used to define what that so-called violent word means?

Earlier this year in June, I published, Words Themselves Are…

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One of my clients was lamenting the fact that they kept choosing their social life over their work commitments. With the reduction of some COVID-19 restrictions in Ontario, and the fact that it was summer and the weather was gorgeous, all they wanted to do was to ditch work and…

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Social Media Is a Strange Beast

In some circles, ‘Facebook’ is almost a dirty word. In Some Thoughts on the Issues to Consider for Leaving Facebook, I share a stream of consciousness about this platform that has become as commonplace in our lives as the clothing we wear.

We are at a point in time when…

Last week, a friend of mine wrote a post on Facebook to say that she was strongly considering leaving Facebook forever.

While she benefits from some aspects of the platform, she wrote,

“I also feel out of integrity supporting a platform that is detrimental to the current and future society I want to live in. Simply by being here, I encourage their business model and reward their decision-making. …

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