Leading a Life from Human-Heartedness
If you’re a Change Leader or a Social Entrepreneur, you may feel stuck or overwhelmed by fully embracing your role as a thought leader or advocate for change and standing up for what you believe is right and ethical.
Maybe you're struggling to commit to one core message and method, or you're looking for a way to truly stand out as a powerful and impactful leader in your field. Perhaps you feel unseen, unheard, or even misunderstood.
Occasionally, it feels like you're trying to do too much—juggling multiple causes, constantly switching up your approach, or changing your focus. That can leave you feeling scattered, with your energy and impact diluted. I get it—you’re driven by a deep desire to help others and create positive change.
But you're also craving clarity and focus to align your efforts with the greater good of your business or organization.
That’s where I come in and what you’ll discover in my articles on Medium.
As a coach specializing in behavioural change based on neuroscience, I support leaders like you to make a difference for what you know is right by ethically supporting a common humanity of dignity and equity.
As a writer, since 2014 I've published over 600 articles and counting on a large variety of topics based on actual experience and research. I now focus on sharing my ideas and philosophy about leadership, morality, ethics, well-being, and a common good humanity based on the wisdom of the Tao Te Ching.
I created Think Queerly, a podcast that explored LGBTQ+ history, social change, and political issues that ran for over four years and produced almost 250 episodes. You can now listen to my latest podcast, Leading from Human-Heartedness.
As a queer-identified gay man, I feel an affinity and connection with other creators, change-makers, and leaders who want to make the world less contentious, more understanding, and accepting. I understand the fear, doubt, over-thinking, and overwhelm of being a creative entrepreneur, a social change advocate, and someone who has lived on the margins.
If you'd like to find out what my clients have to say about working with me as a Thinking Partnership Coach, read and watch their testimonials here.
This is what I believe:
Your wisdom, leadership, and guidance are precisely what someone, somewhere needs, right now, so don’t hold yourself back!
If you're a change leader ready to focus your energy, clarify your message, and lead with greater impact and confidence…
… Then I invite you to join my private Facebook Group, Leading From Human-Heartedness.
This private group is a space for thoughtful conversations, support, and growth among leaders like you who are committed to creating meaningful change with clarity and heart.
Biography
At a young age, I was diagnosed as dyslexic and having ADHD. Furthermore, during my adolescence, I struggled to different degrees with being a completely self-accepting gay man.
Like many, I was conditioned by society to act normal and be like everyone else. That affected how I perceived the world, and as a result, how I felt about myself. By trying to fit in and not draw attention to myself as a gay man, I hid away the most authentic parts of who I am. Gay shame reared its ugly head later in life when I realized I was afraid of success — I was afraid of being visible.
I believe these early challenges led me to pursue higher education as a need to prove that I was smart enough and worthy of acceptance. This started with a year of Chef School, followed by University where I maintained an A- average, and then pursued my Master’s in German Language and Linguistics, spending two summers and a year abroad studying in Germany.
Following university in 1993, I worked at Pink Triangle Press, a Canadian Gay and Lesbian print-media non-profit, moving quickly into a top leadership position. From 2004 to 2020, I worked as an independent Fitness & Nutrition Coach.
I began studying live coaching in 2019 and in February 2022, I was certified as a MindMap Mastery Neuro-Coach. This qualifies me to conduct threat and behavioural assessment and transformational coaching. The program was created by one of the top coaches in the world, Dax Moy, and is grounded in the neuroscience of creating lasting and effective behavioural change.
Learning and practicing strategies to improve my well-being, creative production, and ethical, humanitarian leadership are my core passions. I have attended numerous conferences and enrolled in countless courses covering various subjects over the last 25 years than I can remember — to the tune of a small fortune spent on my personal and business development!
In late 2023, I moved to Montréal with my partner of 13 years, Christiaan.
