“ADD” to Your Life to Live Out the Best of Who You Are

The Living OUT Podcast— LOP013

Darren Stehle
2 min readAug 22, 2018


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Have you left the best parts of you in the closet?

As a metaphor, the closet can be the place where you’ve suppressed and hidden away the best parts of who you are. These are your hidden dreams and desires, which might feel too heavy to drag out of the closet.

The things we’re most afraid of doing are in fact the things that make us evolve. What we are afraid of is leaning out of our comfort zone. Comfort is safe, but it’s not expanding; it’s not where personal growth happens, it’s not where we can have an impact in the world.

How to find that spark if it’s been locked away for too long.

Many of us are looking for a way to create or get what we want, or to be “that person” who we want to be. A structure can help you rekindle that spark and live out the best of who you are.

Read the complete post, The ADD to Your Life Methodology: Assess — Dream — Design.

Originally published at darrenstehle.com on August 22, 2018.



Darren Stehle

Thinking Partnership Coach for Queer Change-Makers. I write about: actionable self-mastery; morals & ethics; LGBTQ+ rights & advocacy. DarrenStehle.com.