Happiness Should Not Be the Goal for Change Makers and Leaders

Happiness is a byproduct of doing things that are aligned with what’s deeply meaningful to you, that brings you fulfillment through pursuing your purpose or mission.

Darren Stehle 🏳️‍🌈
3 min readNov 24, 2024

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I bet you’re thinking that there are a hundred great reasons to be happy!

You’re right, of course.

However, happiness is not a goal — nor should it be.

Happiness is a state of mind and being. The only way you can be in that state, is to be in the present moment.

What would you rather be? Happy now, or happy later?

Happiness is a byproduct of doing things that are aligned with what’s deeply meaningful to you, that brings you fulfillment through pursuing your purpose or mission.

In other words, the resulting experience of true happiness is an affirmation that you are authentically living in alignment with and practicing your core values.

So, if you’re reading books or articles or listening to so-called experts who talk about how to be 10% happier (or whatever measure), I suggest you ditch that bullshit!

You can’t increase the…

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Darren Stehle 🏳️‍🌈
Darren Stehle 🏳️‍🌈

Written by Darren Stehle 🏳️‍🌈

Empowering values-driven leaders to create transformational change in the world by championing dignity, equity, and our shared humanity. DarrenStehle.com

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