The problem wasn’t that I had not messed with the wrong people — it was that I had. Gay culture touts the values of inclusion, togetherness and tolerance, but is punishingly unforgiving to dissenters and misfits.The Troubling Contours of the Gay Aesthetic1.2K11Alexander GelskiDarren StehleNov 18, 2017·1 min readHow we love to hate ourselves by oppressing those within our own circle who sit outside the margins.
