The gay community must be one of the rare examples where individuals are happy (even proud) to describe themselves in terms of the diametric opposite in an attempt to distance themselves from being gay. I’m referring to the term straight acting— a term frequently used by gay men to indicate that they are not ‘gay acting’ (camp or effeminate). Because, of course, that would be an awful thing to be. In other social groups, those kinds of terms are usually reserved as scathing insults and hardly ev…